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 ~ Everybody seems to want to be critical of someone else and how they are living. Funny thing is that we all have flaws and it is better to take the time to examine your own before you take notice of others ~

starbucks

~ At Starbucks today a Lady ( I use the term very loosely) asks ~ Why don't you have a mustache, goatee or beard like every other man I meet or come in contact with? ~ Black gentleman ~ Unlike other men that apparently make up the surrounding areas of New Haven, I need not look like others to fit in ( I am comfortable in my own skin), have interest in doing something just to give evidence of my age( thats what I have a license for) & plan to grow hair on my face unless I decide to do so( this is called freedom of c h o i c e, spelled it out for you just in case your still confused), do have a nice day. ( turns and walks away ...no need to stand next to...ignorance)

~ I think it's very healthy to spend time alone. You need to know how to be alone and not defined by another person ~ Oscar Wilde ~

~ Desirably speaking I want someone that I can spend time with/ my time unimportant to you is precious and I value it/ Some people keep forgetting that life is sort and intimate connections are more important than you think/ Sensual thinking I wish to have someone just for me ~ 

Rainy days has its ups and downs/ means you can either deal with the reality of. Fact is that the work you planned to take care of today you have to put off for tomorrow, which means that it's more to deal with the next day. Rainy days seems like a good thing but in reality you wish it was sunny

 ~ You know... if your doing well and you see someone ( you know, of course)  that maybe needs a ride ( as long as they are going your way), could use some positive advice ( if your capable of giving some)  or just wants someone to listen to their troubles  (and you have the time). What wrong with being there cause you never know  if things down the line would ever be reversed ~ 

~ Sometimes to achieve a goal in life you have to step away from everyone.....means less play time and more organization of this ONE life you lead ~

~ Even the best advice comes with some sort of price attached to it, not everything can be taken care of with money ~