learning

~ Every day you experience something different..how you react to it...defines your character ~

EP

~ Sometimes if you have not achieved your goals..put the personal life on hold then focus on ....meeting those ...AIMS in your LIFE ...... #EYESONTHEPRIZE ~

Ideals

~ I AM NOT PERFECT, I AM NOBODIES PAWN & WHEN IT COMES TO THE CHESSBOARD OF LIFE...I AM THE KNIGHT ..MAKING L SHAPED DECISIONS  ~

Only one way...

~ Life is all about figuring out #whatmatters , how to get there & removing the obstacles in your way ~

F.R.I.D.A.Y

F.R.I.D.A.Y

~ A good Friday night consist of enjoying a lot of 🐉 dragon fruit, a glass of Moscato white 🍷 wine, ~ lovejones ~ soundtrack, an angelic page turning book & essentially a bright 🌕 Moon to light up the evening.. simplicity does matter ~

Attracted to

For me to say ...I am not attracted to her ( mind, heart & soul which is expressed by dialogue) ...means that from a conversational point of view... I just am not feeling that vibe. Attraction goes a long way....but I am strongly attracted to a lady that I can have..deep, sensual, poetic, engaging, unique &  strong conversations.... 🌞 sun up to sun down.. 🌕 Moon rising to moon setting.....over ☕ coffee or or glasses of 🍷 wine....and so they can treat me like a king...but it is their words that leave me in a comfort zone ( as well as attracted to them)...so I must respectfully say ...NO.

Date night

Let's see... I pick her up respectfully at 6 pm. I greet her at the door with a white rose in my hand. She goes to grab it. But I say stop this is for the lady that raised you and ..I ask her to get her mother. Then I hand the white 🌹 to her mother thank her for her time  then we leave. I open my car door and she attempts to get in before realizing there is a white 🌹 in the car seat... I put on D' Angelo and we drive to a miniature golf spot . We play miniature golf ( she wins ) then we go back to my car ( of course I open the door ) and then is a card ( not to be opened till the end of the date and 🐉 dragon fruit in the seat. I put some Maxwell on and we drive to a wine trail in Connecticut. We enjoy the white 🍷 wine while eating dragon fruit while watching the sun set 👌 over the winery... From there we leave & drive to Long Horn steak house ( its self explanatory that I opened the door for her to my car and opened the door to the restaurant, pulled out her chair.. no need to elaborate) ..ordered... filet mignon, rice pilaf & mixed veggies with wine. Lots of time to speak to one to better understand where we both are coming from, what we want and eventually desire before leaving for a roof top bar. Which allows us to find a corner table and then I get to watch her smile one the chocolate covered strawberries arrive at the table along with another white 🌹. Finally the date ends.....with me bringing her back to my car, turning on Luther Vandross and asking what may I do for you now..My Lady Dajour....?
🤔...what should a woman do to initiate sex? ... ~Smile~ ( in other words just be herself & let her inner soul speak volumes..I will eventually get the message)

More R.O.M.A.N.C.E

SEEK
R.O.M.A.N.C.E. =

Real
Openminded
   Mature
      Angelic
         Natural
            Cherished
               Engaging

RELATIONSHIPS with substance....

In my modest opinion...I strongly believe..today JULY 1st...that all good people need to slowly... patiently seek what they want in life....cause time stops for no one. Do what you need to do to be happy...But do not sacrifice  your own personal happiness...EVERYTHING begins just with a few exchanging of words between two people wanting something ( hopefully) everlasting, no? ~

Say it louder...

~ Whenever you encounter someone/anyone that tells you ..No, you will not accomplish your goals/dreams/aspirations. Time to shrink your inner circle some more...you don't need people like that in your life. If you don't believe in me ( from day one) then what the hell you doing around me. No..second chances..I keeps it real as they come ~

Speak your peace...

~...Speaking, Sincere, Surreal, Sensual, Soft Spoken, Striking, Symbolic....Direct, Diplomatic, Dramatic, Deep Dialogue to a good woman is how one truly yet very respectfully takes the time to get to know a good woman ~

Think

~ If you make it a habit to think before you speak even when it comes to the easy questions ..it will help you when it comes to answering the hard ones...THINK BEFORE YOU SPEAK~

L.O.V.E

~ What is L.O.V.E ....A Lissome of Orgasmic & extremely Vivacious moments of Engagements ~

Chess not checkers

~ When you do not have a like-minded soulmate within your current state of  surroundings. Complete the education, gather up your secured personal capitol/c.r.e.a.m. (this includes your seeds for a better future) then move to an environment ( better state) that may just include..a driven, focused, bold, illmatic &  unique type of individual you can not imagine life without ♤ #history~

May 2019 nights

Q~ How does one treat a woman these 2019 May summer nights?

A~ With the dim moonlight guiding the both of you...slow dance to some Marvin Gaye music ..cheek to cheek. Deep sponge bath moments( take your time listen to Maxwell..so HELL..yes keep dropping the soap) followed by a sensual soft cocoa butter lotion body massage...let the movements of your fingers down the middle of her back do all the talking.

May 2019

Q~..How does one treat a woman these May 2019 summer days?

A~...In my modest opinion.. sincerely you take the time to communicate with her about the likes and dislikes over margaritas at a spot that has a rooftop. The both of you.. enjoy the Dragon fruit feedings with one spoon over candlelight.

Date ideas...

~Q~ What's your idea of romance versus today's Connecticut woman's idea of romance?
~A~ My idea is to enjoy the CT wine🍷 trails, a few slow dances on the lady Katherine ⛵ riverboat while it sails on the Conn. river, followed by a beautiful dinner of appetizers then a few glasses of white wine while enjoying fillet mignon, mixed veggies & 🍚 rice pilaf meal at Longhorn steakhouse...lastly a 🌕 moonlight walk on the beach. Yet today's CT woman just wants dinner & a movie. We definitely have different ideas concerning romance...

The long run..

~Finding someone that notices your layers of beauty on the outside is ( periodically) easy. But finding that one person..that takes the time to seek who you are...mind (deep dialogue exchange)... ❤️ heart ( tugs at the strings of who you are emotionally)  & soul ( finds out what you are all about individually)...is someone worth KEEPING in the long run ~

Hello there...

~ The beauty of a woman..people often would say they see it in her physical features ( which is nice but there is much more to a lady). I say you learn more about her beauty (look inside & it will lead you to the promised land of who she is) ..by talking to her...in other words..through communication...you can understand her a lot better. To get a glimpse into her heart & soul you need to be patient then genuinely talk to her. Sincere yet deep truthful exchange of deep dialogue actually does matter & can lead to something with substance ~

W o m a n

~ Today's woman largely is defined by how society viewing them negatively verse instead of how they see themselves positively when literally looking within the mirror. This needs to change if you want mind, ❤️ heart & soul to grow, life wise ~

Cherry

~ Be there for her..that cherry of emotionally being there for her (ENTIRETY)..needs to popped..Be ..That one man that listens to her 💓 heart. You see her sad you be there for her.Be that man that HEARS her...express herself ....speak fom that inner beauty...
Be that man that makes eye contact..with her your thinking of who, what, why & when you can understand her more. Be that man that regardless of what I happening in the world you know that your woman would put you first..so you have no problem doing the same...

Part dos...

What a woman deserves in the morning ( part dos)

To be ...s l o w l y deeply sincerely...kissed in the morning. To open her eyes and see that she is surrounded by soft 🌹 rose petals that covers the whole 🛏️ bedroom. Breakfast ( skim milk, strawberries, green tea & a 🧀 cheese omelette) served in bed...( no ✋ hands...I will patiently in between kisses.. feed you..ever so delightfully)... Let's listen to the ~love jones ~ sound track...while I look into your lovely eyes. Yes ..your favorite👗dress is laid out for you...so you have a wonderful day at work. First let me carry you to your scented sponge bath & apply the sponge to you..gently...if we have time a little cocoa butter oil massage therapy..before you get dressed...I had you a white 🌹 rose, a card of my thoughts & a box ( your favorite perfume) ..for you to open when you get to work....I hope you have a blessed day

The first step is the hardest

~ Steps, everything is steps..taking the time to heal yourself & understand who you are...Step further..take the time to speak with someone that you feel...may respect what you have gone through...what you currently deal with & what matters to your heart. Step through that door of communication...expressing who you are ...letting that individual SLOWLY begin to know what you are all about..mind (poetic yet engaging thoughts), body(more to me than the physical) & soul(take the time to really see me)... Everything is all about steps ~

Life goals...

~ Life is all about finding an amazing independent sweet lady, a loyal great pitbull, experiencing every aspect of this world while working in a career (my three master's will make me my own boss) while keeping apts in Texas, Spain & Aruba,  💯 goals👊

I can

~ My father always taught never to surround yourself with those that have can't in their vocabulary...because over time..it rubs off ~

See me

~ I would much rather dance in the darkness than see you in the light ~

Choices in love...

~ If you are at that point your literally breathing hard when you reach the top of the stairs, can't bend over to touch your own toes, consistently say this and that person is not good enough to the point you done weeded out all the good people no longer in your life or regularly putting people through the emotional ringer especially when all they ask is how may I respectfully get to know you....just accept the fact you are not mentally, physically as well as emotionally ready & you will just remain single, period..sometimes it is best to work on yourself before moving forward to be with someone ~

Truth of the matter...

Life is about breathing air into your future...so work hard & your goals in this world will eventually materialize

5 senses

I prefer all 5...when it comes to get a woman
Hear~ I like listening to the dialogue of deep poetic words truly expressed in an honest way ~
See~ Looking at the expression in one's face when you looking in the eyes.
Smell~ Enjoying the deep aroma of truth which comes in a natural way.
Taste~ The moment you enjoy fresh air when it passes through.
Touch~ The mere moment of brush of the skin is romantic if both people meant it to be...

Choices are mandatory

~ There are times you have to find the ability to manuver & make chess moves just to survive in this world ~

Game on

~ When your class less opponent advocates for checkers & wisely you prefer chess. Light the cigar, pour the 🍷 wine & move your Knight, take no prisoners ~

Know your self worth

~ In life you can either be a follower, leader or just a sleeper within the pack. I am a loner, Omega & prominent individual that is happy in my solitude & focused on my future with a pulse on the present & knowledgeable of the activities of the past..History ~

2019

My batcave/ time of solitude... involves studies of the work of Stanley Kubrick, the magnitude of  Krav Maga, the exotic knowledge of Kama sutra, the knowledge of Taekwondo, the art of Clint Eastwood, my studies at SCSU & put a more solid nature of strength, agility as well as quickness in the physical aspects of my body ( I want a few more tattoo's), learn the 48 laws of power ( time to cut the fat when it comes to worthless people) for my mentality while Machavilli's The Prince cultivates my soul....2019 is the time to focus on ....

more than just sex..

~ The soul of the female matters ...you over time continue to dig deeper to better understand what makes her who she is today, yesterday & tomorrow. The heart of the lady matters as well ...how giving, gracious ...loving & sweet moves me...Intelligence is sexy...the mind of a good woman matters... you can converse for hours with your soul mate....there is more to being with your soulmate than just ....s e x ~

Know the H i s t o r y

~ Sometimes to better define who,what & in reality..how you perceive yourself..really look at the overall... history then come to a better conclusion of what matters. BE...that individual that gets strength from within & change the presumed outcome of your life, making it a better idealistic outcome.. in the end run ~

Yes please...

A women you want...I remember watching the bio on Stephen King... Tabitha King... completely believed in his writing. She picked up his manuscript~ Carrie ~...out of the trash can and said..you can do something with this. I believe in you. This is the type of woman you want in your life.

No thanks...

A woman you don't want...I remember reading Easy Rider,Raging Bull...Marcia Lucas never believed in Star Wars. She literally put down the film and taunted George Lucas telling him that...this is never going to amount to ANYTHING. You are doing a joke of a film.

I just want to know what you are all about..

~ Exchanging dialogue with someone that matters ( especially if she truly interest you) whether it is by cell, inbox, text, email, mailing a letter, a dozen 🌹 roses & even sending a singing telegram, etc in other words......Communication is essential there are no rules, period ~