Solutions

~ In life..you are  responsible for your own actions thus if you create a problem..it's up to you ( not the federal government, state or others ..etc.) to figure out a logical solution ~

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~ Life dispatches lemons in droves...be wise take your time..be VERY patient & make  that 🍋 lemonade~

Sad but true...

~ Most people don't recognize there is a problem unless it harms somebody they truly care about ~

Options...

~ I have different opinions than many people that walk this earth. What I have found out recently...whether family, friend or associate...if my thoughts don't literally step by step match their own...a lot of them will walk away. That is not a problem.. it does happens....Well I found out today a lot of people made the choice to do  just that. Life goes on & there is no looking back, 2nd chances or regrets..in my opinion either accept one's differences or walk away  cause ...I will be damned if I would just stand still...trust me.. I go forward...~

Life is not that easy....

~ What many may better understand...others are still trying to come to terms with ~

Goodbye past hello future...

~ There are a lot of people that back in high school treated you like the crap on the bottom of your shoe .....but when they see you today. These ( clueless) individuals now try to act like the both of you were friends and the horrible demeaning situations they belittled you in those days were fine, fun or okay for you ( or any human being ) to experience. Funny how they wonder why you never tried to keep in touch or how they kept trying to say to you ....oh you were part of the gang we were always cool. Well I came in contact with one of those people last night. ( Begged me to take his number..which I  did then I deleted it today )..Chance meeting at Talk of the Town...  do I regret it. No....will I have anything further to do with him and those other people in that group. If the fact I did not have anything to with you ( or the rest of those people) in the past 20 plus years ...not proof enough .....then I don't know what to say but I WILL NOT have anything to do with you for the next 20 ..maybe you will get the message....everybody has memories but not all high school pasts are the type you wish to remember or (people to keep in contact with)..

Worth repeating...

~ Only the strong will survive.....remember it takes a true believer, physically determined, hard working, patient individual to weather the storm of the weak minded ( you can't do this or you never will do that) which is not easy to do these days ~

1st & 2nd...

~ Life is about choices...make the right decision the first time & you won't be begging for a 2nd chance~

A kiss is a kiss...

French kissing below a woman's belly button is what a man does to just wake her up in the morning....& to slowly delicately deeply say goodnight.....Also to periodically throughout a good day make her smile......this is not news...to a man that knows what it takes to treat his woman right.....it is to men still trying to figure out what is missing ....from the Intimate relationship between a man & a woman...

We live in a truthful era...

~Don't expect sympathy for doing a cruel foul deed..I feel sorry for the people that you hurt & no you don't deserve a 2nd Chance~

Just acknowledge it...

~The life of all people are precious..what better needs to be understood is we all deserve to live a very long one ~

YES..i am a CONSERVATIVE

~To be Conservative within a blue state is bold yet..it is the misdirection from the current gov. malloy that helped cement it ~

Look within...

~ Beauty is a matter of understanding...If that individual is worth it...~ BE ~ ..there by their side as they evolve ~

The truth of the matter...

~ Trust is something that can be earned. It takes only one ( serious ) mistake to lose it.It can  never be earned back, again ~

Option 1

In life, we all have options it's up to you to decide which ones to take...

CONNECTICUT the beautiful

~Someone asked me a question, I answered honestly.
~Question~Have I ever met a racist before ?
~Answer ~Yes, I (as Security Officer for the State of CT )met many(more black than white, sad to say) hopefully over time things will change...I have seen a lot...over my 17 years..all I can do while performing my duties... is hope for the best ~

What type of world...

~The world we live in is a blessing to some & a curse to many others,no matter what,make the best of it & try to remain positive~

I wonder about people...

If you know for a fact that it's not right in anyway shape or form..you don't say do it anyway.......you just don't do it....

Is killing right ...no
Is robbing someone right ..no
Is rape right ...no
Is getting even by doing something that is morally wrong ..right ...no..

This is about life...not about getting even..... In all matters you do the right thing....period.....regardless....